The 4 Easy Steps to becoming a Male Porn Star

Published on October 23rd, 2018 by in Advice

Since the Launch of my Mixed Wrestling site, Evolvefights,  I have been inundated with emails from civilian men who want to be on the site. In the Porn Industry, we refer to Vanilla people or people who are not in porn as Civilians. While I’m flattered and happy that there is so much buzz and excitement about my site, I’m also perplexed as to how some guy off the street feels entitled to work with a professional company like mine on his very first go around at porn. To me, that’s like a kid fresh out of highschool with no school or job experience, hitting up Mark Zukerberg for a job. I guess maybe if Zuckerberg needs some PR or he might hire you but what are you honestly going to be able to offer his company. Porn is a business, like any other business. There are costs for each production. As a producer, I pay Rental fees for location, I pay a videographer, I pay a Production assistant, I pay a booking manager, I pay the talent for each scene, I have to pay for permits and supplies and costumes and makeup. Let’s say hypothetically, I hire some civilian guy off the street. He promises me that he loves the content on Evolved fights so much that he will 100% be able to maintain a boner and be able to pop. For those of you who are not familiar with porn vernacular, a “pop” is what we call “The money shot”  or ” the pop shot” or the climax” in layman’s terms its when the guy nuts! It’s called the “money shot” because that’s what you guys “pay to see”. No matter what your sexual orientation is or how straight you are if you watch porn to “see the chick get fucked,” you are really watching and scrubbing through to the end until you see the guy bust a nut. Ironic I know! You thought you were there for the chick getting fucked, but there you are, getting a boner to another guy’s boner oozing jizz….It’s totally natural, don’t fight it…embrace it.

I Digress, So this Civilian I hypothetically hired makes the promise to maintain his boner and promises to be able to give me that MONEY SHOT. He shows up, he wrestles with one of the female athletes I have. He doesn’t realize it’s real wrestling and it’s competitive and my girls can really fight. He comes out hard the first 3 minutes of the fight and then uses everything he has in the first few minutes and then he’s exhausted and can barely wrestle the next few rounds. He loses. But let’s say for the sake of argument, he does win….I’d be so very very happy. We let the wrestlers clean up and get ready for sex. They take their time, relax, maybe even eat a little. Now it’s time for sex. The lights are on. I have my full crew ready with cameras going. It’s game time! It would be game-time except for one small detail, there is no boner. The fucking guy is nervous. This is his first time fucking in front of an audience ( my crew) on camera. His guy is a little shy and he swears to me “this never happens”.  Now if you haven’t picked up on it yet, this scenario isn’t hypothetical. This scenario happens ALL to often on porn sets when they don’t use professional male talent and frankly even happens when they do use professional male talent. Sometimes shit happens. But when that shit happens, I lose several thousands of dollars because I have no porn to sell at the end of the day. I’ve paid the location fee ( they don’t refund me due to lack of boner), I have to still pay my crew for the time, If I flew models out, I lost the flight money, hotel money, food money, makeup money…you get where I”m going here? I’m SOL and it’s all because I put trust in this random guy on the internet who “promised” he would be able to perform. I’ve been in the industry since 2003, This isn’t a new phenomenon, it isn’t going to change, Boners are still going to be missing in shoots unless every male get’s a pump surgically implanted into his dick ( yes you can do that). What will change is how professional companies end up doing business. What has happened is that professional porn companies will not work with “nobodies”. If you don’t have a reputation, You’re not going to get work. Plain and simple.

But how am I going to get experience if NO ONE is willing to hire me.????…ahhh good question young grasshopper. I will break it down to 4 easy steps. I said easy, I didn’t say cheap.

Contrary to unpopular belief, not just anyone can shoot porn and be successful at it. The people who succeed in porn are good at business. They know when to cut their losses, they have learned when to turn people down, they engage with similar businesses. Porn is a business, just like anything else. If you are business minded and professional, you will do okay in porn. In order to get started in porn, you’re going to have to learn to invest in yourself. You can’t very well expect Professional porn companies to take the risk in hiring a nobody so you need to be the Somebody they want to hire. To turn into this somebody, you will need to start doing some work. Broken down in easy to read steps, here goes:

Shoot your own content

This is exactly what it sounds like. Get your business license, your permits ( look up the laws in your area about shoot) If you need resources to help you research some of this stuff is extremely helpful. You will be able to find attorneys who specialize in Adult so that you can keep compliant with laws. Make sure what you are shooting in Legal ( contact an attorney if you are unsure if it is illegal or not.) Make sure you learn about 2257 compliance and how to check ID’s. These things are extremely important. Failure to comply with your local laws and federal laws will land you into serious trouble and claiming ignorance that you “didn’t know you had to do that”  or “weren’t allowed to do that” is not defensible.  Once you have set yourself up as a complaint and legal business owner, you can start shooting your porn in a legal fashion. Find the niche you want to shoot.  Save up the money to get a budget for the shoot. If your shoot requires models other than yourself, you should sign up as a member of the Free Speech Coalition   . FSC has a lot of resources to offer as well. Read up on the code of ethics and Best Practices. Once you have built some rapport with FSC you may be able to register as a producer on their site. When you first start out, however, you need to build rapport. People need to know you are a legitimate person who’s not trying to lure women into his basement and do creepy illegal things to them. Start making some consensual homemade videos of yourself or if you have a willing and consenting partner, make videos with that person. Show the camera your penis and how well you can maintain an erection. Do not FORCE anyone ever to do anything with you simply because you are desperate to “make it” in the industry.


open  a clip store

Anyone can open a clip store. The good thing about clip stores is they take care of hosting and processing for you. They do take a percentage from you but that’s the price of doing business. Edit your videos and upload them to your clips store. A simple google search of “clipstore” will give you a ton of options of companies that host adult clips for sale. Pick one, You can even upload to all of them if you wish. Build up a good stable of content. This is going to be your resume for people to look at when you go to them to hire them for videos. You will need to hire people before people hire you. People will not hire you simply because you show your dick on camera. You should have more than 20 videos on your clips store ranging from 5-20 minutes each


Hire models

Now that you have established yourself somewhat on a clip store, you may be able to begin working with other models. You can begin by searching for models who shoot content with men. Do not start emailing girls who only do webcam solo work or only do g/g work. Do your homework before you contact models. I am not a big fan of “trade content” I myself don’t do it much. I pay my models to perform for me. If you are brand new in the industry, you should probably offer to pay models as well since you’re a nobody and they can get any dick to work with, you’re not special. When you do work with the models, be respectful, pay them the rate you said you would pay them, don’t be an asshole if someone turns you down for work. Simple things that seem like common courtesy but that get lost when people get emotional about rejection or failure. I also think if you are new, you should try to hire models through agents. The agents tend to do good research about someone who is trying to hire their girl and this protects models from dangerous situations. It also helps you to build a good relationship with agents which helps your reputation in the industry.  Agents may do a background check on you. This is to protect their models. If you have a questionable background, You may be be able to work with thier talent.


Build Rapport

Now that you have officially become the gentleman of porn, you treat women you work with with respect, you are professional on set, you maintain your erection and you pop when needed, you can start reaching out to agents to get representation. You will find that since you were hiring models through agents and being respectful, You will be received much better by the agents when you go to them to seek representation. Models will even start requesting you as a scene partner because you were so nice and professional. Having a good reputation is important. If you wish to not have an agent represent you, that is okay as well, but that will make it a little more difficult to be hired by major companies in the beginning until you are established more.  But None of this is really going to get you anywhere unless you have a decent sized dick that can maintain a boner and can pop on command. I’m not trying to discourage you, but as a producer, I can’t shoot tiny dicks. I can’t see any of the penetration, it looks dumb….there’s a reason why every guy in porn has a huge dick.


This is how a nobody guy gets into porn unless he’s dating a porn star. If by chance, you are dating a porn star chances are she’s already asked you to be in videos with her and you are already making porn. But this post isn’t for those special guys. This is for the hundreds of guys who have sworn they would be amazing at porn and want to do it. I want you to live your dream, this is how you do it. It’s not my obligation to put faith and risk money and time on you just because you like my website. The only shortcut is if you have a girlfriend who’s in porn. If you do not have a girlfriend in porn, tuff tittie. If you are not willing to put in the work or make the sacrifices with your time and money well shit……you’re expecting a producer to risk the time, money and effort for YOU????? nope, Workers turn into JERKERS! You put the work in and you’ll be jerking that jizz all over everyone’s face.



8 things you’re doing Wrong if you want to be Friends with Porn Stars

We will be entering the year 2019 shortly. Like it or not 2019, people are watching porn in public and proudly proclaiming their adoration for smut( Thanks for being caught watching Porn hub Kayne). Times sure have changed since I started in 2003 in the industry. I thank Paris Hilton and Kim Kardashian for making “leaked” videos which launched them into stardom and made porn an open topic of conversation. I also thank the fact that people are resilient and after years of being oppressed by religion and peers, most of you saw past the bullshit, said, “I’m tired of these hypocrites” and, “fuck it! people are going to judge me no matter what, I might as well get some fun out of this life”. You owned up to your love of sex, porn, and awesome porn stars. You’re a human being and you want interaction. This is natural and how are you going to get it? You’re going to start watching porn because it is a great stress release, it helps you realize you are perfectly normal because you can see other people commenting and sharing the same porn that you like. Hell, you have a rapport with other porn fans now! you’ve found your home! Congratulations, you’re no longer alone in this world.  

“Congratulations, you’re no longer alone in this World”

Social Media has made it easier than ever for you to be able to reach out to your favorite star be it, athlete, actor, musician,  politician or porn star. Huge celebrities ignore you, however. They have too many fans to keep track of so any interaction you attempt to have with them falls by the wayside. Musicians ignore you, politicians give you nothing, actors don’t know you exist and athletes just want to fuck your girlfriend so they ignore you but privately DM your girl ( WHAT ? you know it’s true don’t act like it’s not). As you browse social Media you stumble upon your favorite porn stars and you see they are very active on their social media accounts so you want a piece of this action. You want that reward trigger in your brain so bad in the form of a “like” or a simple “Thank you” that comes from your favorite porn star. So how do you go about getting that? You’ve been tweeting them non stop for days now and now the worst thing in the world has happened. YOU’VE BEEN BLOCKED!!! how did this happen and how can you avoid it? Here is a list of thing you’re doing wrong when adoring Porn stars. Actually here’s a list of things you’re doing wrong when dealing with any person because, well frankly, pornstars are regular people as well.


1. Don’t send Dick Pics.

We get it, you’re proud of your dick. At any given moment you have 176 photos readily available of your member in every angle, professionally lit, and in every position possible. You are proud of your piece and you think everyone else cares about it, We don’t. Porn Stars see a lot of dick. Its our jobs to see dick. If you worked at a burger joint would you want people sending pictures of burgers day. You’re going to be so judgemental of their burgers when then send you a picture of them. You’re going to be like ” dude I know burgers and that burger you sent me a picture of is garbage….learn how to pack your meat properly before you send me this trash”….That’s exactly how people on the internet view your unsolicited Dick picks. On the rare occasion, you do get a girl on line asking you to see pictures of your dick, please note that you’re probably getting catfished but if you’re not, go ahead and send pictures if they are requested and ONLY if they are requested.


2. Never Call them By their Birth Name.

The quickest way to creep someone out who currently goes by a pseudonym is to call them by their birth name. Let’s face the facts, there are several people who do not go by the name on their birth certificate for one reason or another. I have a brother who has one name on his birth certificate but we never ever called him by his birth name. My mother made us all call him by a different name and that’s the name I know him as and THAT’s who he is. If any ever called the house asking for a guy with his birth name, I knew it was either a bill collector or some scammer, because NO ONE called him by the name on his birth certificate. So you assuming that your favorite star even ever went by their birth name immediate makes you look like a tool. It shows that you spent a good deal of time even looking that information up. The first question is WHY are you looking that information up? The second question do you think that knowing their birth name makes you special? If you were able to look it up, that means it’s not really special information that any Tom Dick or Harry could find. It doesn’t bond you with them. It’s not “insider” information. It’s “I took stalking to a whole other level by googling your real name so I can try to find out your record or address”. There is NEVER A REASON TO LOOK UP ANY CELEBRITY’S’ REAL NAME EVER. If by chance the celebrity wants to start going by their birth name for a month to get some PR, so be it. But if you know Madonna as Madonna, Call her fucking “Madonna”. Also, it’s never okay to ask the porn star if you can call them by their “real” name. I know you want to feel more intimate with them. Maybe you’ve shelled out thousands of dollar on their videos. I get it, you feel entitled but you’re not entitled to that personal part of them. You’re really NOT in a realationship with them. They are selling you a fantasy. If they want you to use their real name, give them the time and space to let them approach the subject with you. I have made many friends online who were fans of my work who I now tell them to call me my real name. Unless I tell you it’s okay to use my birth name, MY name to you is Ariel. And if you insist on emailing me addressing me with my birth name, you’re going to get ignored.

3.  Don’t ever ask if you can be friends 

 I’m not talking “Friends request” on social media, my meaning here is you already follow them or are “friends” on social media but you write them to ask them to be your friend in real life. I get so many of these emails and it’s the weirdest fucking thing I’ve ever seen. It’s like you’re in kindergarten and you ask someone in class to be your friend…what are we, 6? Think about your friends in real life and how you became friends with them. It happened organically. Maybe you were stuck in a class together for a year. You saw each other every day and eventually, one of you cracks a joke about the teacher and you instantly bonded. Or you work at a job and you see your coworkers every day. You don’t start out best friends but over the course of time you develop a mutual hatred for Barbara who works in accounting and you become friends because of your mutual hatred of that bitch Barbara. Fuck Barbara! Or maybe you play sports on a team and after trials and tribulations with your team, you have bonded with them and you’re friends for life. Or maybe you have no friends at all, that’s okay! nothing wrong with that because you’re awesome and you’re your own best friends. That’s the coolest and best friend to have because you’re not going anywhere and you’ll never turn your back on yourself. Again, that just happened organically. You didn’t have to force that friendship. You know they saying ”  if you have to force it, it’s probably shit” If you have to force a friendship on someone, it’s not going to work…move along.

”  if you have to force it, it’s probably shit”


4. Don’t ask them for favors 

I know, You want to know how you can get into porn or maybe you need to borrow $100  from this porn star because you know she makes money….. we all need a little help from time to time. What’s it going to hurt to ask for a favor the worst that can happen is they say “no” right. Well no the worst that can happen if you ask a complete stranger for a favor without offering anything in return and they block you and then you never get to interact with the person you claim to adore. Think about all the spam you get from the Saudi prince who needs your help so he can get money out of his country and all you need to do is deposit $10k into this offshore account so he can give you 300Million… it’s bullshit, it’s a scam don’t do it. And if it wasn’t a scam, would you help if the email said ” the prince needs you to give him $10K, that would be great if you could help” What the shit do you get out of that deal? Why don’t do you drop everything you are doing and help this asshole. There is no such thing as Altruism and you’re out of your mind if you expect people to help you for no reason. Even if they did want to do a good deed, they do it so they can brag about the good deed they did. Don’t argue with me on this, George Price proved we are all selfish assholes, I’m not being a dick writing this I’m merely stating facts. It’s been proven that if you want someone to do something for you, you are more likely to recieve help if you offer something in return.  So if you would like to get some tips on how to get into the industry  start out by offering something in return for example ” hey Ariel I would like tips on how to get in the industry, I heard you had a blog, can you send me the link so I can hopefully get knowledge from it and in return, I will promote the blog to get you traffic to your site. You see, I’m too lazy to use the search box in your blog so if you do the work for me, I promise to help promote your blog and send you traffic.” —-Ahhh… honesty about being lazy AND the promise to promote my blog…how can I resist helping this person out!!



5.  Don’t tell them you watch their stuff For Free 

The elephant in the room, let’s talk about it. Porn gets pirated, we get it. I assume most of you reading this blog have watched stolen porn or free porn. It’s this weird thing. Free porn does promote the models but for what purpose? It’s getting stolen and taking money out of our pockets. Getting Views on a tube site that doesn’t pay us does us no good. What’s the point of having 1M fans/views if none of those people are paying to see your stuff…. oh what , we’re infamous, we get to have  all the crap that comes with  being a celebrity, we get the harassment, the stalkers, the haters, the complainers all this without any of the glories of financial compensation? What the hell would we keep working for. Do you work for ‘Likes’ no…you work for money. Porn is not sponsored by social media, they do not pay us to be influencers and reimburse us for how many followers we have or likes we get or views we get. We are the mistresses of social media: they want us because we bring them traffic but they don’t want to admit they like cause their wives will not approve.  IF you do watch the porn for free, Don’t’ tell us, Don’t rub it in our face. That’s like me going into the apple store bragging about how I stole their product from Costco


6.  You’re not Valuing Their Time

time is the single most valuable thing we have in this life. It’s irreplacable and taken for granted. I’m going to echo what I just said. PORN STARS ARE NOT PAID LIKE ONLINE INFLUENCERS. WE GET NOTHING FOR THE NUMBER OF FOLLOWERS WE HAVE OR LIKES WE GET OR VIEWS WE GET ON SOCIAL MEDIA. Social Media tries to do everything in their power to keep us from being on their platform publically. The time we spend online is used to engage with who we want when we want, how we want. If you send us one reply to one of our posts, chances are it gets overlooked. Don’t write us 30 follow-ups, We will get to it when we can. Also if we do respond once, that’s not an invitation to write us a million times. We don’t have time to be pen pals with every single person who writes us. I’m a little torn on the next part I’m going to write here as I have heard so many arguments from both sides of the coin but this is the truth. If you want to interact with a porn star, The fastest, easiest way to guarantee he or she writes you back is to offer a token of appreciation in advance in monetary form. Sigh there I said it. I try my damndest to reply to everyone who writes me comprehensive things. If I can not make out what you are trying to say, I will ignore you because I assume it’s coming from a bot. Nobody has time for bots. I do get a TON of messages and I do try to get back to everyone. I appreciate the folks who pop in and just say ” hey just saying hi keep up the good word, that’s all” and I reply and they are content with the one response. It gets really difficult when I do respond and then the fan opens the portal of hell asking questions that I have answered 199878 times already in posts and the slue of questions keep coming in from them. They want minute by minute recounts of what’s going on in my life. I guarantee they would never treat someone they know if real life this way. When this happens I tend to “silence” these people. I know no matter how much attention I give them, it will not be enough and they will keep trying to suck more and more time out of me. I don’t have the resourced to dedicate to that, no person does. I believe that interacting with fans is a duty ( hehe I said doody) to interact and give the fans an experience to an extent. I also know time is valuable which is why I have MY redline of where I need to stop interacting unless I’m getting some sort of compensation. Each porn star is different on where they draw their redline but in general, if you offer to compensate them for their time in your first correspondence with them, they will be more likely to engage. This doesn’t make us assholes, its business. Do you go to your therapist and try to talk to them for free? do they talk to you for free? does your accountant talk to you for free? Chatting with a porn star fills a need in you to feel like you have some companionship. It’s a service. Some of the services will be free but when you want more and more of that service, there should be compensation.  Like any other business, time is money


“Like any other businss, Time is Money”

7. you’re basically harassing them; stop it.

#6 leads into #7 here. We understand that you are super passionate about porn but here’s the thing. There’s a fine line between being passionate and being a stalker so it’s best for porn stars to err on the side of caution because historically, being too nice has literally KILLED US. There are a handful of porn stars that have been murdered by adoring fans. I personally have had two incredibly insane stalkers and it is scary stuff. The sad thing is, the type of people who become this dangerous would not know they are the ones we are talking about. The stalkers tend to think the people they are infatuated with are mutually in love with them. They belive we give code messages to them. I had a stalker write me from 5 different email addresses, pretending to be multiple different people and in their emails to me mentioned how they got my code messages from tweets I was sending ( trust me there were no code messages being sent out). You can’t rationalize with crazy and for that, a porn star needs to keep an extra guard up. We need to “FUCK POLITENESS” and look out for our well being. So if that means we block you because you are acting rather strange, so be it. I can’t teach you how not to be crazy. Sorry, I don’t have tips on how to fix this other than…seek the help you need.



7.your intention is to get a date with them, Most likely it’s not going to happen!

Do porn stars fuck average joes? ABSOLUTELY!!! Many of the models escort and you may be able to hire them for a special night…you need to look up the laws in your areas, however, to stay out of trouble.  I’m willing to bet if you are in the US, most likely it will be illegal to pay for sex. I think that’s the stupidest law in the world, but I’m not writing this post to talk about bad laws.  Porn stars date and even marry average joes and janes. How we meet those people varies. Porn stars get many offers for guys who want to hook up. I’m not going to lie, there are some girls who are really THAT horny and will fuck anyone who asks ( GOD I LOVE THEM FOR THAT, THE FACT THEY EVEN HAVE TIME FOR THAT…I’m  JEALOUS) bless their hearts. I know hooking up with people is numbers game. You need to casually ask 1000 people and maybe you will be 1 person to say yes.  So maybe you’re playing the numbers games with porn stars in hopes to increase your yes to no ratio. Kudos to you but don’t get your expectations up too high and don’t get angry when a woman turns you down. I know we are in the age of Incels but women are not turning you down because WE are the problem. You may be getting turned down because of your approach. If you are only writing a girl because you wanna fuck that’s your prerogative but as I mentioned before, Porn stars are business people and if you can’t contribute to their business, don’t get mad if they turn you down.

I’m keeping this list simple. Basically the moral of the story is to treat porn stars like normal people because we are normal people. And hey, if you’re a porn star reading this I hope it helped you as well in understanding the fans’ point of view. Let’s all be kind to each other. Influence the world with good, give a little so you can get a little, scratch each other’s backs. We need fans to support us so they can vote on laws that help us rather than laws that hurt us. If a fan watches one of your videos for free, don’t get too upset, that fan may just be the swing vote we need to protect doing the things we love. Being bitchy to them may just influence them to vote to destroy an industry that seemly rejects them.  Thank you and keep fighting the good fight, Bring a smile to someone today and always be kind to yourself.



Kelli Provocateur, Ariel X Submissive X Fitness Trainer Trains Ariel’s ASS

I’ve been trying to get somewhat regular updates for my Submissive X series. I will most likely NOT be building a membership site for this series. I’m finding it hard to juggle updating 3 sites right now,, and also  It takes a lot out of me to booking models, accommodations for the shoots, maintaining the studio building, star in movies, edit movies, market everything, do customer services. currently, I can not hire anyone to delegate any of this work to since all these projects are in their infancy and not bringing in enough money to pay someone else. I do enjoy shooting all this content and I would like to continue.

Without any further ado, Let me tell you about my most recent shoot with Kelli Provocateur. I’ve known Kelli for a few years now. She has wrestled for me on various websites. She’s a sweetheart, a little wild and very fun. I think I get along with Kelli so much because we have a lot in common. She’s petite albeit she is smaller than even I. She has a muscular build, she’s into fitness. I immediately have a rapport with fitness people because there is a mutual respect for people who discipline their workout and diet. After spending some time with Kelli, I have learned a lot about her and I really really think she’s amazing. It’s always fun and easy to be submissive to someone you hold in high regard. For the Submissive X shoots, I write and direct all the shoots to live out My fantasy. Since Kelli is notorious for being a great trainer, I thought it would be fun to do a scene where she is training me, being mean yet seductive at the same time and then having her way with me.

Here’s a trailer for our scene which can be found at


Lesbian Evolved Fights Clips are up for Sale on

Thank you guys and girls for signing up to receive updates on the lesbian evolved fights series. That project is still a work in progress. There is no promise of a full site build out for that site yet. I am still doing market research to see if the demand will make the cost of shooting these things. Currently, the only place to purchase our Lesbian evolved videos is on If these videos do not break even, I will not be making the site.



With that said, Check out the videos if you are in lesbian wrestling….and if you’re not, then don’t check them out…



BTS and Bloopers for London Rivers vs Tony Orlando

I keep saying, These wrestler are charming and fun. Porn is great and everything but these bloopers really show you the personalities of these performers. I really hope you enjoy these as much as I do. For the Porn, go to 


The bloopers will be on the site as well but here’s a freebie for those of you who aren’t members.



I love Bella Rossi

We get some good BTS and bloopers on the Evolved Fights set. We get some pretty cool people. I hope you enjoy these outtakes from Bella Rossi vs Max Blunts. For the full match got to 



Evolved Fights Launches

It is with Great Pleasure that I announce that Evolved Fights is now LIVE!! I want to thank each and every one of you for watching the free video and checking out the photos and doing our survey. We have taken a lot of your feedback and changed a few things about the site. So things on Evolved fights have already….well…..evolved. We will be updating Weekly on fridays ( no specific time of day but before midnight) The site Launches now with 12 really fun shoots already uploaded which you can view for the membership price or you may purchaseindividually on VOD.

These shoots are:

Cheyenne vs Max Blunts

Savannah Fox vs Shawn fox

Lux Lives vs. Jay west. 

Dee Williams vs Jay west. 

Daisy Ducat vs Sam Solo 

Charlotte Sartre vs Lance Hart

Bella Rossi vs Max Blunts

London River vs Jay west

Billy Boston Vs Kelli Provocateur

Brandi Mae vs Marcello

Mistress Kara vs Will Havoc

Sebastian vs Cheyenne


I have also been working on a separate stand-alone site for tracking fights and fighter stats. We track how each wrestler enforces orgasms and the leg scissor power as well as take down defense and sexual aggression. This stand-alone site is a lot of fun and it’s 100% free. It is going to be PG for the most part so that I can drive traffic from mainstream sources there. The fights are tracked there so if you don’t wanna know who the winners of each match is, don’t look at the fight record. However, most of you have expressed interest in knowing the outcome and this is understandable seeing how these matches are competitive and not predetermined and you may have a preference for one gender to win or not. IF you only wanna see femdom, you would absolutely NOT want to see a match where a girl loses, therefore, it is important for you to know the outcome. This is the same thing but flipped if you have a preference in seeing the women dominated; you sure as hell don’t wanna accidentally watch a video where a guy is getting ass fisted. Please book mark the stats page by visiting

Enjoy the sites and shoot and please keep the feedback coming.







Lesbian Wrestling Site coming along #spoiler alert on Cheyenen Jewel vs Jasmeen Lefleur

I know I’ve posted before about my mixed wrestling project. While working on the mixed wrestling site….and after hearing that potentially Ultimate Surrender will not longer update ( at least I know I will no longer be involved with it) I knew there would be a market for a new high quality lesbian wrestling site. After dealing with the pain in the ass that is building an adult site. I don’t think I will invest into a stand alone site for the lesbian wrestling content. I will host it on clip stores and update about ever 2 weeks. Building a site from scratch is costly and frustrating on so many levels so I’m just not going to do that again. I hope to launch in September 2018. For now, I have my first lesbian wrestling shoot up on wrestlingclips. It stars Cheyenne Jewel and Jasmeen Lefleur. I want to thank all of you who have contributed to the surveys I’ve been putting out. I have gotten some really outstanding feedback and I believe I have made a pretty unique and fun new sex fight format that is completely different than anything I’ve ever seen online. The Evolved Fights “Lesbian Edition” focuses on wrestling skill and sex fighting. It has a pretty simple scoring system that rewards good skilled wrestlers as well has good dirty sex fighters. So someone can be a great wrestler but if they aren’t being very sexual, their opponent can win. We have 3 people in the room who act as judges, myself and my camera crew. The three of us watch the match and decide who wins the round we just saw.

We evaluate techniques, such as effective Pinning with shoulders down, effective grappling, control of the ring/fighting area, effective aggressiveness and defense, Sexual aggression from the top or bottom position, number or submission successfully applied.

Evaluations shall be made in the order in which the techniques appear in above, giving the most weight in scoring to effective grappling, Shoulders down PINS, control of the wrestling area and effective sexual aggressiveness ( fingering, kissing, tribbing pussy licking) and defense ( not gettin fingered, not getting kissed, not being trib fucked and not being face sat and also reversing holds or getting out of submission attempts) These are all things that are pretty obvious to the viewers at home. There is not arbitrary point system where a ref hands out points for touching a boob for a set amount of time…its a very simple system…very easy to follow but I have a few more details listed below on how we judge each round.

Effective grappling is judged by considering the number of successful executions of legal sweeps or reversals. Examples of factors to consider are any position to mount position or side control, passing the guard to mount position, and the top position trapped in the guard being able to pin the shoulders and perform sexually aggressive moves on their opponent

Effective aggressiveness means moving forward and constantly looking for sexual aggressive attacks ( IE fingering, pussy licking, oral, penetration when applicable)

Effective defense means avoiding being taken down or reversed while countering with offensive attacks and defending sex points

The following objective scoring criteria shall be utilized by the judges when scoring a round:
a round is to be scored as a 10-10 round when both contestants appear to be fighting evenly and neither contestant shows clear dominance in a round;
a round is to be scored as a 10-9 round when a contestant wins by a close margin, landing the greater number of effective Sex points, grappling and other maneuvers;
a round is to be scored as a 10-8 round when a contestant overwhelmingly dominates by doing more sexually aggressive moves or grappling in a round.
a round is to be scored as a 10-7 round when a contestant totally dominates doing more sexually aggressive moves or grappling in a round.


If you are familiar at all with how boxing or MMA is judged, you will be familiar with how our matches are scored as well. simply put….If someone looks like they are a better sex fighter, then they will win the match. They must be aggressive sexually to win the round.

We have also made a new rule to keep things fun and sexy when we get uneven match ups where one wrestler simply keeps submitting the other inexperienced wrestler. We have 20 second penalties. Once a submission is successfully applied, the clock is stopped and the person to submitted her opponent gets 20 seconds to do anything sexual to her opponent. Because the clock is stopped, the judges can not take this sexual part into consideration towards the scoring of the round. However it is highly likely that the person getting the submissions is also dominating sexually while the clock is going so it is highly likely they will win the round anyway. We loved this rule so much we are now implementing it into our mixed wrestling matches….so after the Bella vs Ruckus match that will upload at the end of 2018, you will see our new mats and our new rules on As you can see…..we are already evolving. Keep the feed back and amazing suggestions coming gang however do not write me asking me for what will end up being a custom match. Please do not send me a breakdown of everything you want to see in one match…that’s a custom….send suggestions like “it would be cool if in the prize round the girls could do lift and carries”….thats an example of a great suggestion……but writing me which models you want to see and what positions using what toys and how you want close ups of belly buttons….well folx….that’s a custom….we can shoot that and charge you a fortune…but that will never ever see the light of day on the two 100% competitive wrestling sites I run.

without further ado, here are some sample photos and the trailer for the video








Nuru Massage Scene with Penny up

I’ve posted a clip onto my clips stores.  For Anyone who is interested in more senual lesbian dominations, we took abreak from corporal punishment and toned things down with a nice sensual NURU massage. Penny Barber oils me up then oils herself up and we rub our hot, tan bodies all over each other. Penny fists my pussy then fucks my ass. So it’s not exactly “tame” but it’s not extreme by any way. Here are some pictures from the shoot. Enjoy




I’m a Brown Belt in Brazilian Jiu Jitsu now

I was promoted to brown belt last Saturday at my gym. I can not express how accomplished I feel and how excited I am.


I started training seriously in Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu in 2008. I had been wrestling for Ultimate Surrender for a few years and I had my shares of losses in the beginning. My Boy Friend at the time got me a membership to Big John McCarthy’s Ultimate Training  Academy ( BJMUTA) so that I could get skills for US. In the beginning, I  went intermittently. After a while, the addiction kicked in. I half joke about it being an addiction. If any of you know anyone who trains a martial art, you might say it seems “cult-like”. We followers tend to eat drink and sleep the art. If we meet someone randomly who also trains in our preferred martial art, we instantly bond with them. When I first started training, I practiced No gi. A GI is a uniform you might see a BJJ practitioner or Karate Practitioner, or Judoka wear. It’s a heavy “pajama” almost. No Gi just means you do not wear the Gi but you will wear some sort of rash guard or board short attire. I felt that no-gi was better to learn for sex wrestling…which it is. I was actually promoted to Blue belt in no gi…which sounds weird…they usually don’t do belt promotions for no gi. But I paid my dues, put the work in, competed in the tournament (and won gold many times) so at BJMUTA  I went from the white belt ( which is what you start as) to Blue belt. Shortly after getting my Blue Belt, duty called. I had to leave Southern California and move to the SF Bay Area. I was sad to leave my gym in so-cal but I found a new home in the Bay area at Combat Sports Academy. CSA was my family. I really loved that gym. I had torn my ACL just before my move to the Bay Area. For two years I was unable to train in anything that would twist my knee. I had the Hamstring Autograph ACL repair which means the ACL repair would heal within 6 months but my hamstring repair would take much much longer. During this time that I was unable to train BJJ, I got into boxing and Muay Thai. I was blessed to be able to train with world champion strikers at CSA while I nursed my knee to health. Finally after 2 long years of training 1-hour boxing, 1-hour Muay Thai and then sitting on the mats just watching the instructor go over technique for BJJ, I was able to actually participate in grappling again. It was frustrating at first coming back from my injury. I just wasn’t confident in my movements. I had a little PTSD as well. I was so damn nervous of anyone grabbing at my leg or foot. It took me a while to break the negative mental state. I trained several hours a day, I took private lessons, I watched youtube tutorials on moves while I was trapped on the BART train for my morning and evening commutes in and out of work. The obsession came back and it paid off when I was promoted from Blue belt to Purple Belt at CSA. Then work made me move again. Kink dissolved its production company, My dad got really sick and moving back down to southern California was the best choice for me so I could tend to family issues and still do production. I cried when I left CSA, they were a real family. Also, I had been promoted to Purple and was purple for 2 years at CSA. I felt i was on course to get promoted to brown at some point while I was still at CSA and on a terror there. I was doing really well in my classes and I had a great relationship with my instructor. Unfortunately, when I moved back to socal, I did not move back to the town that BJMTA was in. I moved closer to Ventura ( which is an hour away from BJMUTA which was in Valencia) a 1-hour commute just to train wasn’t realistic for me. I had to find a gym close to my house. I tried many gyms but one stood out above all. Elite MMA is my new home. Elite has become my new family. I train with some of the toughest yet kind men and women there. They Never go easy on me which is what I want. I have been training there for two years now. I have seen many of my training partners get promoted and of course, I was happy for them. One is not supposed to covet the promotion but one does. It’s hard not to be envious waiting for your day to come. I stayed patient. Each promotion that came and I didn’t get a stripe or a belt, I just said to myself, “as long as you’re learning it doesn’t matter”. Saturday, I have to admit, after the promotion, I felt amazing. I was like “finally”!!! the wait made the promotion that much more sweet. I earned this! I know it’s legit….all the others were legit as well but this one I really really waited for. 4 years as a purple belt. It’ seemed like an eternity. I am still filled with such joy and the reward I just got is driving me to train more and more. I’m more obsessed now than ever. I am so so close to the black belt. The Journey has been amazing and I wanted to share with you all.

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