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Long Time, No Blog :(

by admin November 13, 2010

I’m sorry to have been absent for so long from my blog. Work has picked up like crazy for me…not just the adult work…I’m talking my mainstream jobs as well. I do affiliate marketing and I’ve been spending many hours posting ads and making money for the holiday season. I love keeping busy. I’ve also been getting a lot of sessions with gentlemen from other countries who are here on holiday. I’m having a blast kicking foreign ass!!

Well of course I will post more about my work adventures but also have something else to share. I wanted to share this video on youtube of this Father going on his daughter’s bus to confront the daughter’s bully. Some of you may or may not be aware that I have a 9 year old little boy..he will be 10 this January. He’s different. He is really smart…too smart for his own good..he’s skinny and a little akward. He gets bullied every day of his life at school. The bulling has only recently been brought to my attention. My son felt like he was tattling if he told on the kids who hit, punched, kicked, spit and name called him…His school would ignore the issue until a few months ago my son was forced to go to a hospital for a week because due to the bullying. I have spent many a days for the past 4 months in pta meetings, psyche meetings, IEP meetings…I have a meeting at least 3 times a week..it’s been my life…it’s been hard to work or function but it’s not impossible…redbull and hot chicks in fitness mags keep me going .

I swear to god I can not tell nyou how much I fantasize having a cat fight with the mother and/or father of the child(ren) who are causing my son his grief…there is nothing worse than hearing your child say he hates school so much that he wishes he could just die.

In this video the Dad is so upset after hearing about his daughter’s problems at school and having the school ignore the issues, he takes matters into his own hands. This guy stood up for his daughter but later was arrested.

It’s very frustrating, as a parent, to want to be able to help but know that if you act on your emotions then you may end up in jail. I really don’t see anything wrong with what this man did..maybe the cursing in front of kids was a little much…but I’m sure they see and hear worse when in their own homes when their disfunctional parents are fighting…yes that’s right. I feel all bullies come from disfunctional homes.

Say what you want about my career choice, what I do or who I do..but if you ever came into my home you’d see that there is so much love and respect in the home. My child’s problems are not in our home…they are caused by these jerky kids with jerky parents who pick on this little boy of mine.

I am investigating what my rights are as a parent so I can take care of this issue in a legal manner…..perhaps I will challenge the mom and dad to a duel…I”ll see if Jason Miller can set that up :).

anyway..that’s the crap I’ve been dealing with…more positive stuff will be posted in the future, I promise

bullying

4 comments

Fred J November 13, 2010 at 2:39 pm

Im sad to hear your kid is getting bullied, really cant imagine what that must be like for you and especially your son. I really do hope it gets resolved ASAP. Lets hope the school and the bullies parents takes it as seriously as it should be taken, but from past experience that rarely seems to be the case.

Had my own experience being teased rather than bullied when I was 8-9 years old, got my revenge after puberty when I suddenly wound up almost twice as big as my former tormentors and put them in their place properly. Was a nice feeling, but its hard to make scars inflicted at a young age go away later in life.

My only advice to you is to do your best at making sure your son truly realizes its not him, but rather his bullies that has problems (by some mystery, jerky kids who are harassing others often gets it from their parents in one form or another)

Good luck

Mitchell Rivera January 24, 2011 at 9:07 pm

I think you should force him to take Karate or Tae Kwon Do or Boxing. I was never beaten up by other kids as a kid but I don't think that could be good for him at all. As much as you want to protect him you can't you'd be better off trusting the trainers have a lot of experiance dealing with young men in similar situations. Don't tell your son he's skinny, akward, or different that'll hurt his self esteem and could lead to pent up anger and hostility issues later or the oppisite. I'm sure he doesn't want his mother thinking he's soft or not tuff because he loves you. I hope everything works out for the better. Who knows maybe he'll become an MMA fighter one day because of it.

Good luck

Robin January 25, 2011 at 12:13 am

You're right Ariel, bullies come from homes that are dysfunctional in some way. I think they
don't have any self-esteem and try to get some by berating someone else–pathetic but true.
I was the female version of your son. I was picked on and beat up because I was skinny, wore glasses, didn't swear, didn't smoke, my clothes weren't a carbon copy of everyone else's, and I didn't think it was fun to pick on kids who were different in some way so I could be "cool". Over time I evolved–not as shy and reserved and I don't take that kind of shit from anyone–I am a confident, athletic woman who nobody believes is as old as I am who could kick those peoples' asses today–but I don't need to because I know who I am as I did way back then & I still know it's not only ok to be different, it's the best effing thing in the world! You keep doing what you're doing to support your son…of course you can't deck these kids or their parents, but hold your ground in the meetings cause these people have to be held accountable for what their kids are doing and WHY they're doing it. Take care.

ArielX January 25, 2011 at 9:22 am

Thanks for the nice note, Robin. We are getting through this. He sits on the bus with a staff member..although I\’m sure that causes more trouble but at least he\’s not getting roughed up before school even starts.He\’s a good kid.

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