EEK my site was down and other exciting crap

I’ve been working to much, I’m losing my mind. I have so much to blog about!!! I’m glad the holidays are coming up because that means companies will stop production..which means I get a break and can catch up. I seem to be wearing a lot of hats suddenly, fully time mom, wrestler, affiliate marketer and friend to you lonely souls out there. I love my life though, so I’m not complaining. I’d rather be too busy than be bored out of my skull. Seems that now that I’m single I am more focused. I feel like an ahole for putting so much wasted time and effort into a relationship..I had so much potential…shucks..what a waste..but I’m back…and everything happens for a reason..everything I have done up until to day has lined up so perfectly to put me in a sweet spot where i am successful, rich or getting there ( relatively) and happy.

I started doing affiliate marketing years ago and it’s finally paying off..and now that I know a little about SEO and traffic and what not, I am able to pretty much sell anything via the Internet and be successful at it. I need to focus though. I need to find something i love and market the hell out of it…but…I need to stay focused or lame stuff with happen. Take yesterday for example….I was all eager to get a new URL for a website I was building..I purchased the url…went to download a database to it but forgot to put the root in correctly and wouldn’t you know it my ariel-x.com site was down for a day…all because I didn’t use my noggin..but I fixed it..yay!! One of the reasons I love being my own webmaster…I get shit done!!! I don’t have to call or email and bug some dude to get to my site and then 4 weeks later see results.

well what else..thanksgiving was splendid..I spent it with my family. I got to see my big bro, who I have seen in a while. He’s a jerk, as always but I still love him :).   I went up to kink and had a really big day!!! I shot for Ultimate Surrender, then went straight to Fucking machines…and then did Webcam for them….wow what a day..and yes I will blog more.

anyway …I have some stuff to do..lots of great news..I may have a wrestling webcam site coming soon…I will be running it..stay tuned folks!! gosh..what else..I’m taking a vacation soon..thinking Alaska Cruise or Hawaii..I’ve never been to either…any other suggestions would be great. I love to travel. It will just be me and my son…so think “family trip”..If I get a hot girlfriend next year I will make a special trip for us adult too…so suggestions for good lesbo gaycations are appreciated as well.

Happy Thanksgiving

It’s Thanksgiving and I have ever so much to be thankful for. One of the most important things I am thankful for is the blessing I have being able to wrestle women naked. Wrestling women naked has changed my life for the better because it has raised myself esteem, it has forced me to get into and stay in great shape and it gets me out of the house doing something I’m proud to be doing. Hows that for an opening statement, language arts teacher? LOL

It’s true. Wrestling has raised my self esteem in many ways. I can’t say I ever had low self esteem. I feel I’m pretty realistic in my view of myself. The world is a big place and before I started wrestling, I often felt as if I was an average bear. I always thought I was cute…I guess I know the rules of being some-one’s “types”. Everyone has a type of look they like and when a girl has what they like…she has “it’” when she doesn’t she “doesn’t” it’s as simple as that. I often felt as if I had a look that the average person would like which made me feel a little average. I had been modeling and doing fetish work for years before I found wrestling. Sure I got emails from gentlemen, complimenting me on me work and my style and sure it was great. When I started wrestling…win or loose, I would get so many emails from gentlemen who looked that fact that I was doing something active and yes it was nice that they thought I was cute. The number of compliments helped raise my self esteem….which in turned forced me to want to do better which I did, which in turn got me more compliments. Suddenly I found myself spiralling into a happy spot of feeling confident in my looks and confident enough in my skill so that if someone didn’t like the way I looked..I could beat a different opinion into them and they would end up liking me LOL.

The work outs I put myself through, day in and day out, are grueling. Some days I don’t want to work out but I force myself to do it because I can’t quit. Each day I train I tell myself ” you may not want to do this but you have to because if you give up on this work out you will train yourself to give up on the mats and tap when you don’t need to”. My mental game is strong and I need a physical game to match it. I train all body parts accordingly. I do my back and biceps, I do my shoulders, I do my chest and triceps and I do my legs each on a separate day so I can go max weight on each muscle group, with out fatiguing the other groups and inadvertantly ”over training”. Of course I take breaks from the gym and my diet. I take a day off at the gym every 4 days and every Sunday I pig out on the most delicious junk food the world can give me. Because I train so hard, my body has become a solid brick house. I am sometimes unmovable on the mats but I have also developed curves in all the right places and at the ripe age of 30, I must admit, I think I look better now than I did in my 20’s hands down!! I am confident when I walk into my gym and I’m confident when someone brings me brownies that I would eat them until Sunday. My mental game is strong for both my workout and my diet. It has to be strong in order to keep a good feminine balance.

With the new found, mental and physical strength, I walk around with a lot of confidence and of course I am proud of what I have accomplished with my body form. I am proud of what I have accomplished in my life. I love opening my emails from you guys and seeing that you just saw my most recent match released. I love when you ask me questions, even though sometimes I take a while getting back to you, I try to always get back to each and every one of you. I am proud of winning any match I have won but most importantly I am proud to have lost any match I have lost because that is where the growth comes from. I am proud to be a part of something like naked women’s wrestling, a sport that a lot of women turn their noses at. I am proud that I bare my body, skills, strengths and weaknesses to all of you on the mats. I show no shame as I have none. I am proud when I dominate my opponents wrestling and even more proud when I dominate them sexually. I love what I do and I am thankful I got into the sport.

So tomorrow when we are eating our stuffed birds, you should know that I will be saying thanks to all of YOU who make it possible for us to do what we do. YOu put food on my plate, you keep my body in shape and you give me girls virginities to take!!! Bless all of you!!!!!!!! muah..

Black Light party and Thanksgiving

I went to a party this weekend. The theme was black light attire, so everyone was wearing hot glowing clothes. I thought it was a great idea because everyone looks so tan in black light, all the blemishes and flaws are hidden and you can see who the real blonds are :).
I took a nice long nap right before we left for the party. I think I’m going to start doig this every time I go out. I don’t do drugs, I don’t take anything that helps me stay away, I drink but that usually makes me tired. I’m always struggling to stay up when I go to these parties. I’m usually miserable cause I want to go to sleep but I’m stuck there and in order to hear anything anyone says they have to scream into my ear, over the music.
I found that because I took a nice long hardy nap before I went out that I was able to stay up a lot later, I was in a much better mood and my back wasn’t aching like it always does.
I have to say that this party had some of the best looking people I’ve ever seen…it could have been the lighting but shit..who cares.
We showed up to the party, got drinks, walked around the 8000 sq foot house. There were so many people banging all over the place. I literally had to step over bodies as I walked through the house. And it was a bunch of guys playing with girls most parties is a bunch of girls playing together but at this one, couples were playing all over the place guys going down on girls left and right, girls blowing guys…it was pretty awesome.

me and my lolipop pals, I lick their faces

me and my lolipop pals, I lick their faces

I personally didn’t get any action at the party that night. I wasn’t in the mood really. But when I got home my boy gave me some solid sexings. I can’t complain.
I’m getting ready for Thanksgiving already. I have to work in San Francisco tomorrow. I am wrestling Trina Michaels.
Of course I am going to kick her ass but I’m still very excited about it all. I’ve met her a couple of times and she’s a very nice girl. It will be fun to fuck the shit out of her.

After I wrestle, I have to catch a flight back to Burbank then drive to Palm Dessert. My boy and I are spending Thanksgiving day with his mom. His mom is fabulous. I really wanted to come out on Wednesday before Thanksgiving to help out with preparations and all that but I have to work and a slut’s gotta make a buck 🙂

On Friday I have to drive back to LA to have thanksgiving with MY family. My lil brother is coming out from PA to spend the weekend with us. He recently broke up with his girlfriend so he wants to spend holidays with people who love him and no one loves him more than we do 🙂

So it’ll be a lot of driving but I’ll manage. Driving is a small price to pay to be with people who love you. I’ll drive a million miles to spend time with all the people I’m going to get to see this weekend.

If I don’t have time to blog I want to wish you all a happy Thanksgiving. I am thankful to be able to get to know each and everyone of you who write me. I appreciate the support and I have grown fond of each of you.

xoxoxo

Ariel